Serious l you correct. You can and still might be a wonderful, beautiful person. Rhaps it is a chronological issue? So, if you are lucky enough to find one, and they return your email, and they will actually meet you, and then there is actually chemistry, then both parties also have to share the exact same mindset of not continually looking for someone better. Of course, you don't have to bring up Connect Four if you're not good at it, or hate it (although who has anything but the fondest memories of Connect Four? They want the guy who sweep them off their feet!